How not to dream about perfect life, but to live your dream
I always wanted to live a relaxing life and to be safe and sound, with plenty of money, a lot of friends but also without a single problem. This is a dream of every man and woman, including me. I have always tried to set myself several goals that I want to reach, and then to make maximum effort to achieve this goals in all possible ways available and I did not stop until goal is achieved.
Each goal must be attainable, otherwise it can become impossible mission to reach them. In that way, we put ourselves at risk that this goal can never be achieved, and this will make us dissatisfied with the lack of self-confidence and unhappy. At the beginning, before I started with the realization of his dream, I made a mistake that most people make – I wanted to have a perfect life.
Don’t strive for perfection. I made a simple mistake, but this mistake almost break my self-esteem. I wanted impossible – I tried to get and keep a perfect job, the perfect relationship, and perfect life. Only after some time I realized that perfect life does not exist, and that we have to set ourselves realistic goals or we will completely stumble and in that way, we can lose the will and strength to continue to fight.
When I reached the dead end, I nearly fell into depression, but then I spent a bit of time to think clearly and I realized that I had to start from scratch. Following a couple of weeks of so many problems in my life, I ended up feeling very disappointing. On the other hand, I did not give up, never, no matter how useless and insignificant I felt. Instead, I tried not to let down persons from my surroundings in light of the fact that they expect from me to be tough.
After some time, I failed at so many levels I thought I was complete loser.
This was the point when I decided to take a break and to start to fight again. Now, I realize that there is no such thing as perfect. Exploration has found that many people who want to achieve perfect life failed because they don’t reach goals they set themselves.
Today, I have different vision of life and when I feel fulfilled, I am not satisfied with that. I set new goals and I strive to reach them as soon as I can. I try to be a good person, I have several friends and they help me to feel good about myself and my life in general. No matter if you are rich or poor, you can’t find true happiness if you don’t look deep down to your mind and ask yourself what do you really want from life.
At one point, when you grow up and gets to know your desires, you will know how to achieve your goals and how to be a better person.